So, obviously, I fell off the wagon. For a long time. And I’ve realized a few things: things I would tell to other people nonchalantly as if they were obvious, and things people could tell me and I would agree wholeheartedly because they are obvious. For starters, when I say I fell off the wagon, what I really mean is: I stopped budgeting. I just bought whatever I wanted and figured that some windfall somewhere would cover it. I was impulsive and never said, “no” to myself. I needed someone to stop me and say, “for real? This is what […]